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ABOUT MAMA AYO

Ayo Handy-Kendi, Bio

The Breath Sekou & Founder of Black Love Day

BIO OF AYO HANDY-KENDI, the Breath Sekou, Founder, Black Love Day, Feb. 13th

Ayo Handy-Kendi, is ”The Breath Sekou”, a master teacher of 50+ years of breath study and training as a  Certified Breathologist, Transformational Facilitator, Laughter Yoga Teacher, Reiki Master, Ra Sekhi, QiCong II, Diversity Trainer, Workshop Facilitator, Sound Healer, Loveologist and B.A. degreed Counselor/Community Organizer.

Renown also as Sekou Mama Ayo, she has connected the dots between culture, health and wellness, particularily for BiPoc's.  Continued racism, oppression, economic and health disparities, have made it critical, that despite their gains, they still have far to go to be on equal footing with the larger society.  Sekou Mama Ayo has created many opportunities for self-help, self-love and self-care using many healing tools, especially focused on breathology, and has created many programs and services, using holidays, celebrations and rituals for social change

She is reknown as the  founder of Black Love Day, Feb. 13 and The Ritual of Reconciliation, co-created in 1993.   Today, she further  serves as the 2004, Founder/CEO of  PositivEnergyWorks, a wellness service for Breathology stress/trauma management, connecting culture with health for People of Color (POC’s)  and Founder of The African American Holiday Association (AAHA), since 1989, now, a private membership organization, that stewards, “Black Love Day (BLD) and perpetuates and preserves culture through traditional and non-traditional holidays, celebrations and rituals, providing education, social justice and healing  services, globally.

BLD is the 4th commemorative African American holiday offering a day of celebration, atonement, forgiveness and reconciliation, in a 24 hour demonstration showing 5 specific tenets (loving acts):  Love for the Creator, for Self, for the Black Family, the Community and so-called Black Race. So-called Whites show “love in action” through service, atonement and inspect their own racial behavior and attitudes.  It is a day to end so-called Black self-hatred, so-called White supremacy/racism, as a day for pro-peace, racial and diversity healing, and to heal all and transform all relationships, serving as a more cultural, spiritual alternative to the commercial, often violent Valentine’s Day. 

She personally credits transformative breath techniques for helping her overcome such adversities as the violent death of her son, homelessness, domestic violence,  addictions, chronic depression along with healing the memory of childhood sexual abuse and emotional trauma frozen in her sub-conscious.  
From these journeys, she has championed the belief that we heal only when we feel and that the key to healing the divides of race, inequality and cultural relationship disrespect and separation, is to breathe to feel to heal affecting the release of repressed stress, race-based/personal trauma and un-conscious biases, held in the cellular memory. Breathology unlocks limited beliefs, stuck emotions, pain, anger, fear and stress.

Sekou Ayo has evolved these experiences into certifying over 250 persons in Optimum Life Breathology (O.L.B.). her solution-based training system of applied, daily breath techniques and transformative practices, including her signature trainings, “Relearn How to Breathe”, “Transcendence Breathwork’, “Breath Circles to Heal the Divides”  
She feels blessed to she have “breathed” with billions on radio, t.v, in print, via Internet; on stage,  in private practice and with organizations, colleges and corporate opportunities.  Notable media appearance include Steve Harvey’s Morning Show, Roland Martin’s News Hour, ABC, CBS, NBC and WJLA, Fox News; Washington, Post, and recently featured virtually on the International Breathwork Foundation (IBF) World Breathing Day, The Shift Networks’ 4th Breath Summits and the Breathing Festival.

Filled with love for her community and humanity, she still shares love with her big family.  A grandmother of 20 and great-grandmother of 9 she is also supporting a Liberian adopted son ‘s vision for a trauma release, healing orphanage in his country.  All while fostering a Black Love movement as a “Loveologist” along with a worldwide, “breath movement” as a “Breathologist” “to breathe better to live better, to love better” to change the world. tm . 
  202-667-2577;  [email protected];  www.PositivEnergyWorks.com,  www.AfricanAmericanHolidays.org


MAMA AYO
STORYTELLING  & CULTURAL PRESENTATION BIO

Ayo Handy-Kendi, as the oldest daughter of Doris A.M. Thomas, Actress
and Company Director of the Serenity Players, learned the art of
“storytelling” as a child, listening to her Mother’s stories. She then
created story dramas and skit re-enactments with paper dolls, doll
babies, stuffed animals, and friends. As an adult, Ayo professionally
started telling stories in her work, as a Community Organizer and Mental
Health Counselor, as early as 1970.


In 1981, Handy-Kendi founded a cultural event that grew and grew, developing as
the Founder/Director of the African American Holiday Association
(AAHA) in 1989.  Here, she delighted young and old, lovingly called
"Mama Ayo - the Kwanzaa Griot."  A “Griot” (pronounced Gree o in french)
offers storytelling in the oral tradition of Motherland Africa
that is culturally based, filled with life’s lessons, values, and
history.
When she evolved understanding the colonizing of continental people, she changed her moniker from the Kwanzaa Griot, to Mama Ayo, the Storyteller.
Mama Ayo continues to connect culture, health, and history
to delight young and old with story performances that make information
come alive!



Ayo Handy-Kendi has presented before millions over radio, TV, and
print as a Storyteller, Holiday Authority, Holiday Stress Manager, Founder of Black Love Day –
Feb. 13th, Workshop Facilitator, Rituals Officiator, Breathologist,
Inspirational Speaker, Author, Entrepreneur,
and Spokesperson for AAHA..  


As "Mama Ayo – the Kwanzaa Storyteller", she has presented notable story
performances locally in Washington, D.C. at the National Theater, National Harbor,
the Smithsonian, Fort Dupont Summer Theater, P.G. Mall, and is featured
at numerous Kwanzaa, Juneteenth, and D.C. Emancipation Day events, and
schools, churches, hospitals, and community programs. Nationally, she has
performed with African American Women on Tour, N.Y’s Kwanzaa Expo, and
Atlanta’s Juneteenth Celebration, while internationally on Voice of
America broadcast to over 22 countries, and at the Roots & Gospel
Festival, Benin, West Africa.
 
SEE AYO HANDY-KENDI'S GENERAL BIO HERE (VIA DOWNLOAD LINK BELOW)


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Schedule Mama Ayo for Holiday Presentations / Ceremonies 
Black Love Day–Feb 13TH .:. MLK Birthday .:. Rituals of Reconciliation .:. Women’s History Month
D.C. Emancipation Day–April 16th .:.  Maryland Emancipation Day ...Juneteenth-June 19th .:. International Breath Day .:.  World Breathing Day ...Kwanzaa or any gathering where a story would enlighten

Most Popular Stories
It’s Kwanzaa Time .:. The Talking Drum .:.  A Diversity Healing Story for Black Love .:. 
Freedom Song (for Emancipation Days)  .....Everything that has Life has Breath 
Habari Gani,  on this day of Ujamaa, as the Director of the African American Holiday Association (AAHA), I have prayed over this decision, and have thought best to POSTPONE THE first UJAMAA Virtual Conference on Using Holidays, Celebrations & Ritual for our Empowerment planned for Monday, December 29, 2025. 


The conference is being rescheduled for Sunday, January 18 from 3-6 p.m. EST, in honor of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr, who believed in self-help and our culture.  

 To be authentic, I must take personal responsibility in not adding in the correct links for people to sign up for the conference on the webpages indicated.  And due to our limited outreach to the presenters, we have not heard the responses that we had anticipated for a great presentation.  

Here now is the link to sign up by registering for the new date of the conference, and please spread the word. 
We must use the resources of our own holidays, celebrations and rituals in 2026 to create our own self-determination, as a people for wealth generation, as well as for healing, a goal, I believe Dr. King would believe in

Please attend:  
REGISTRATIONS TO THE CONFERENCE IS FREE.  DONATIONS ARE TRULY APPRECIATED

Hi there, 

You are invited to a Zoom meeting. 
When: Sunday, Jan 18, 2026 02:30 - 6  PM Eastern Time (US and Canada) 

Register in advance for this meeting:

After registering, you will receive a confirmation email containing information about joining the meeting.

https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/HiWwM7XTSrWbTJJa-3xrow


After registering, you will receive a confirmation email containing information about joining the meeting.


For further information, please contact:  Sekou Mama Ayo Handy-Kendi,  202-667-2577 or [email protected] 


ALSO, IF YOU KNOW OF OTHERS WHO YOU BELIEVE SHOULD BE INVITED TO THIS CONFERENCE, PLEASE SPREAD THE WORD AND SHARE THIS MESSAGE.   

aND PREPARE FOR BLACK LOVE DAY, FEB. 13TH 5TH VIRTUAL RELATIONSHIP CONFERENCE & RITUAL OF RECONCILIATION


with Deepest Breath in the up-coming NU Year,

Sekou Mama Ayo Handy-Kendi,


GOALS OF THIS CONFERENCE.

You are invited to gather at the 1st UJAMAA VIRTUAL CONFERENCE on "HOW WE MUST CREATE "UJAMAA" WITH OUR HOLIDAYS, CELEBRATIONS & RITUALS".  A gathering of holiday founders, organizers, event producers, creatives, service providers, historians, product developers, and spiritual, cultural leaders, etc., who will discuss the critical importance of and advocate for a collective response to using our holidays, celebrations & rituals for cooperative economic change, self-help and healing, using our own cultural commemorations.


The ultimate goal of the conference is to continue the creation of The Union of African Centered Holidays, Celebrations & Rituals, a private, cooperative membership. and trade union organization, with an administrative board to spear-head direction and galvanize advocacy for it's members for the public good and empowerment.  The conference is the culmination of the 5 year plan envisioned by myself, as the founder director of the African American Holiday Association (AAHA). The new organization will be a sister organization to AAHA, and has collected some members already, I hope that it will be officially launched at this conference with its official name adopted and the membership structure approved.


Hosted by African American Holiday Association (AAHA), stewarded by Sekou Mama Ayo Handy-Kendi, founder of AAHA, Black Love Day, Feb. 13th, and the Black Love Movement Month . 
Conference is FREE & Open to the Public, But MUST PRE-REGISTER FOR THE ZOOM Broadcast by Thursday, Jan 19, 2026, 5 p.m..  To pre-register.  http://www.AfricanAmericanHolidays.org  or Call for info:  202-667-2577


CALL FOR PRESENTATIONS

We are calling on AAHA Members and Interested persons who want to make 20 to 30  minute presentations on this topic

Some presentations already suggested include:

Ayo Handy-Kendi - How Holidays Affect People of African Descent and Why We Must Empower Ourselves With Them Today

Adria Muhammad - Holidays for Black Folks - a Data--base and Initiative that Enables Us to Know Ourselves

Obi Holly (Oisanichiban),  Professor Kez and  Alicia Lyttle - How AI Changes the Game for Organizing and Telling Our Own Stories of Our Celebrations.

OTHER CONCEPTS THAT MIGHT BE CONSIDERED; 

​What So Important about the history of our events; 
Promote Before You  Organize, 
Harnessing's and Empowering Our Wealth Thru Our Culture;  
Unity and Working Together - How Celebrations Creates the Bonds that Heal; 
Product Development Using our Events; , 
Celebrate Despite Trumps's DEI Push-back,   
Yes, we have a lot to talk about and how we must visualize the potential of our events and celebrations to empower the Diaspora.

PLEASE SEND IN YOUR TOPIC SUBMISSION BY jAN 5TH, CLOSE OF BUSINESS.  Include a  250 word description and include a 4 line contact listing.  We will confirm you Submission BY THAT WEEKEND.


REGISTER TO THE CONFERENCE IS FREE.  DONATIONS ARE TRULY APPRECIATED


You are invited to a Zoom meeting. 
When: Jan 18, 2026 02:30 PM Eastern Time (US and Canada) 

Register in advance for this meeting:

After registering, you will receive a confirmation email containing information about joining the meeting.

https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/HiWwM7XTSrWbTJJa-3xrow



After registering, you will receive a confirmation email containing information about joining the meeting.


For further information, please contact:  Sekou Mama Ayo Handy-Kendi,  202-667-2577 or [email protected] 


ALSO, IF YOU KNOW OF OTHERS WHO YOU BELIEVE SHOULD BE INVITED TO THIS CONFERENCE, PLEASE SPREAD THE WORD AND SHARE THIS MESSAGE.


WITH OUR DEEPEST BREATH, BLACK LOVE & POSITIVENERGY,

SEKOU MAMA AYO HANDY-KENDI

FOUNDER/DIRECTOR, AFRICAN AMERICAN HOLIDAY ASSOCIATION (AAHA)

FOUNDER, BLACK LOVE DAY, FEB. 13TH

CONVENOR:  BLACK LOVE MOVEMENT MONTH AND THE UNION OF AFRICAN-CENTERED HOLIDAYS, CELEBRATIONS & RITUALS.


BREATHOLOGIST, COACH, HOST, SAGEING- BABY BOOMERS & THOSE WHO LOVE US SHOW, AUTHOR, SPEAKER, RITUALS FACILITATOR


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  • About AAHA
    • Contact Us
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    • More About Sekou Mama Ayo
  • AAHA SERVICES & PRODUCTS
    • Programs & Presentations
    • HOW TO REQUEST APPEARANCE
    • BOOKING FORM
  • ALL Black Love Day & Previous year
    • 32nd CURRENT Black Love Day
    • How to observe BLD
    • BLD history
    • BLD BOOK & PRODUCTS
    • MEDIA INFO FOR BLD >
      • Featured Media & Notable Presentations
    • Black Love Book List 31
    • BLACK LOVE 365 CALENDAR